A beautifully styled table is more than just a place to dine—it’s an experience. From the perfect plates to the smallest finishing touches, every detail contributes to the art of entertaining. Whether you’re hosting an intimate dinner party or a grand soirée, a designer-worthy table setting blends sophistication with personality.
At My Object of Desire, we believe luxury is in the details. Here are elegant table setting ideas to help you style dinnerware and tabletop accessories like a true designer, featuring timeless pieces you can shop directly from our curated collection.
1. Begin with a Striking Dinnerware Set
Every table starts with its foundation: the dinnerware. For a refined yet modern look, choose porcelain or fine bone china in crisp whites, accented with delicate hand painted details or bold patterns.
For the biggest impact go for the charger plate, dinner plate and dessert/salad plate. If you are a soup or pasta lover you will be happy if you add a bowl. Completing the table with coffee cups and saucers is also a great touch.
2. Add Luxe Glassware for Height & Glow
Glassware is often overlooked, but it’s key to creating a sense of luxury. Mix stemware in different shapes—wine glasses, champagne coupes, and water goblets—to add dimension to the table.
Opt for hand-blown glasses from our selection, designed to catch the light and sparkle with every toast. Colored glassware in soft hues like amber and mint can also create a statement while staying elegant.
3. Play with Texture in Table Linens
Linens set the mood for your gathering. Crisp white tablecloths exude formality, while linen runners in earthy tones create a relaxed but chic feel. Napkins are where you can bring in a little drama.
Embroidered linen napkins pair beautifully with metallic napkin rings, adding both texture and refinement. For an indulgent look, consider velvet placemats or silk napkins that echo the colors of your dinnerware. No napkin rings, try a knot.
4. Layer with Chic Tabletop Accessories
Accessories are what take your table from ordinary to unforgettable. Designers often use small, thoughtful details to tie a look together.
Think statement candlesticks, sculptural salt and pepper shakers, or a luxury serving tray for bread or hors d'oeuvres. At My Object of Desire, we love mixing sleek metallics with natural elements like marble and wood for a perfectly balanced tablescape.
5. Style a Centerpiece That Speaks to You
A table centerpiece is the conversation starter. Fresh flowers in crystal vases are always classic, but you can also think outside the box—clusters of smaller vases, artful bowls, or even a collection of taper candles at varying heights.
Explore our designer vases and bowls to create a centerpiece that reflects your personal style. For a modern luxe look, pair a sculptural vase with monochrome florals or dried arrangements.
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6. Don’t Forget the Finishing Touches
The smallest details often make the biggest impression. Place cards, menu cards, or even decorative charms tied around napkins give your table a personal touch that feels curated rather than casual.
Browse our collection of unique tabletop accents—from "Love Who You Want" coasters to crystal decorative objects—for those final layers of polish that make guests feel truly special.
Final Thoughts
Styling a luxury table setting isn’t about following rigid rules—it’s about creating a mood that reflects both elegance and your personality. By layering textures, mixing materials, and adding thoughtful accessories, you can transform any dinner into a designer-inspired experience.
Discover the dinnerware and accessories featured above and more in the Tabletop Collection at My Object of Desire—because every meal deserves to be unforgettable.